Saturday, December 24, 2022

So much Noise

There's so much noise around us that we cant listen to the music.

If we can shut down our reception to all the noise around us we can receive the music. 

There's so much clutter in our lives as we don't know what we seek and in that confusion we add some more clutter to it. Remove all things that are not necessary and you will be left with what is essential. 

But what is noise and what is music? Is it just our perception? It's all sound, in the end. 

Sometimes during my morning walks, I close my eyes and listen to the tweets of the birds and at first what sounded like noise, now starts to sound like music.

The same thing can be said about our vision. So much haze that we cant see the reality/beauty around us. The colored glasses that we have on our eyes, distort the reality.

The pomegranate tree

On my run today, I noticed that the three pomegranate trees (can we call them trees?) have shed all their leaves. I wasn't aware that the pomegranate tree is a deciduous tree. 

Back in India, I had seen so many pomegranate trees and I think they were green always i.e in all seasons... but I am talking about Southern India where it hardly gets cold. 

So is this a case of adaptation?

Monday, December 12, 2022

Role of an Artist : Philip Roth

 “As an artist the nuance is your task. Your task is not to simplify. Even should you choose to write in the simplest way, a la Hemingway, the task remains to impart the nuance, to elucidate the complication, to imply the contradiction. Not to erase the contradiction, not to deny the contradiction, but to see where, within the contradiction, lies the tormented human being. To allow for the chaos, to let it in. You must let it in. Otherwise you produce propaganda, if not for a political party, a political movement, then stupid propaganda for life itself -- for life as it might itself prefer to be publicized.”

― Philip Roth, I Married a Communist 

Sunday, December 11, 2022

When to Quit

Read it somewhere and is something that I want to remember

Imagine your child comes back from a practice and says: 'I hate karate! It's too hard. I don't want to do this anymore!'. Just tell them this: 'Okay, you can quit. But not today.' Then explain: 'We all have bad days when we want to quit. When something feels hard, our brain and body resist because they want us to be comfortable. But if we quit on a bad day, we will never become great at something and we might regret this later'.

'So here's the deal. You can quit on a good day. When you have had a successful day and still want to quit, let's talk'. 

This approach normalizes struggle (which builds resilience) and honors your child's choice if they want to try something else.

We all have these days when it's just too hard. To build resilience, adopt this mantra: Never quit on a bad day. 

Saturday, December 10, 2022

Dichotomies of Life

 Of late I am realizing that life has so many dichotomies. Listing them here:

  1. Individuality and Community
    1. One needs to exert their ego/individuality but one needs others 
  2. Purpose and Nihilism
    1. There seems to be purpose to life but at the same time life doesn't seem to have any meaning
  3. Selfishness and Altruism
    1. On occasions people act selfishly but they also display Altruistic behaviors on other occasions

Your own way of living

Be courageous to chart your own way of living, however different it may be, but at the same time do not let that way of life, become an impediment in connecting with others who have a different way of living.

On Education : Maria Montessori

A few lines from the book "From Childhood to Adolescence" by Maria Montessori

To teach details is to bring confusion, to establish the relationship between things is to bring knowledge.


Since the human mind is mathematical and philosophic, we try, in reasonable proportions, to turn it towards mathematics and philosophy.


    

 During the course of our experiments with the elementary school childern, we have noted that it is exactly between the ages of size and tewelve years that the bases of all the sceiences ought to be contructed. Ther exists at that time a psychologically sensitive period that could be called "the sensitive period for culture", during which the abstract structure of the human mind is organized. It is at that time that all must be sown. One ocan compare this period of the human mind to a field where seeds of grain are thrown which then await their respective season to germinate.

The aim of education is to study all possible means to "sow the seed" at the suitable age. The "seeding" ought to interest not only the elementary schools but also the university, in the same way that the planting of flax ought also to interest the canvas-maker, since it becomes useless to have good instruments to work the raw meaterial if the latter is wanting.

Psychological life proceeds in the same manner. At certain ages an inner activity forms the roots of the first intellectual development, thus arousing enthusiastic reactions and awakening the capacities that, without such activity, would remain half-dormant. There follows the whole age of youth which develops these centers of interest. But if the seeds of knowledge have not been sown at the right season, only an inertia remains, which causes the child to balk at effort, and all study is sterile. One could say that it is when one has committed this sin against the laws of life that work becomes an arid effort, a sort of condemnation similar to that described in the Bible regarding Adam. Evidently it is not work, but work outside the laws, that is condemned by divine curse. It is thus that the student follows a dry course in a forced manner and without animation. A supreme encouragement would be necessary, a ray of light to call out the hearts that are withdrawn into themselves by inertia and error, to revive the languishing life. But it is not a dry school that can do this, one that underestimates the personality of the student and continues to aggravate the disagreement and inertia.

Therefore, even for the acquisition of knowledge the various phases of school have a common interest. Or rather, the higher schools have, with regard to the elementary schools, a concern with control. For it is in the latter that human energies are prepared.

The university professors, as much those of the sciences as of letters, will have before them ardent apostles, intelligent critics, and veritable collaborators in their students if these have developed normally. If not, they will have before them resistant, indifferent, and inert minds, disrespectful youths whom they will have to keep on a leash as so many young goats.

But collaboration is still more necessary when treating of the human personality in its totality, because man is thirsty not only for culture. Culture brings with it something receptive, while life is active and expansive and seeks creativity outside itself. Which is to say that to study is not to live; but to live is precisely what is most necessary in order to be able to study. 

 

 

 

 

 

Sunday, December 04, 2022

Zeal

Life needs a Zeal ... but don't become a Zealot

Managing Oneself

As someone who entered into 40s recently and in middle-management and also mid-life crisis, this dated article felt very relevant. 

https://www.academia.edu/7660878/Managing_yourself_peter_drucker